Do you need help from a coach?
Are you are constantly taking care of everyone at home and losing yourself in the process? You understand how your childhood experience made you a caretaker, but your sick-to-death of feeling like your wife’s therapist or counselor.
In your work, you’ve got great boundaries and your business is thriving, but at home….you want to stop relying on helping others to feel loved.
You can imagine what it would be like to find that stronger version of yourself, but therapy hasn’t helped you bridge that gap.
As a professional, you feel powerful and competent, but in your marriage, you don’t have that same balance.
The part of you that would allow others to give to you and meet your needs is utterly lacking.
Check out these symptoms below and see if you need coaching to break the old pattern.
Are you generous, but only to get people to like you?
Do you eager to fix everyone else's problems but your own?
Do you lie (even a little) or leave out parts of stories to make yourself look good?
Do you anxiously avoid conflict?
Do you work hard to hide your flaws and past mistakes?
Do your emotions feel hard to access or are you easily controlled by them?
Are you trying hard to be the opposite of whoever your father was?
Do you find it hard to make your needs a priority?
Is your girlfriend or wife your emotional center (is your emotional state directly tied to hers)?
Do you believe if you do everything exactly right, you'll have a problem-free life?
Are you more comfortable relating to women than to men?
If you answered yes to 2 more more than you need help or it’s only going to get worse. If it hasn’t already, your marriage, your life, and your career will suffer more and more until they collapse under the weight.
So where do you go next?
If you’re ready to take action, book this introductory coaching session below: