Masculine Wholeness
A Proven Path To Heal Your Marriage
Coaching Men Who Grew Up in Church To Regain Trust and Intimacy
Unlock Your Potential.
Thrive In Your Marriage.
You thought she would be happy and love you if met her every need and took care of her.
In the end, you are lost in your marriage. If you continue living the lie, your marriage will fail- if it hasn’t already.
Or you can acknowledge and address your core beliefs about yourself, learn to be who you really are, set healthy boundaries, and prioritize your own needs while embracing vulnerability and genuine connections with others.
You can also save your marriage in the process.
How did you get here?
You act like this because you were raised to believe that you were being selfless by ignoring all your needs and focusing on her, especially if you grew up in church.
In reality, you weren’t taught how to live like Christ. Instead, you were taught to be a “Nice Guy.”
Nice Guys learned, often in church, that to be loved and meet their needs, they had to be perfect. Nice guys also tend to compulsively seek approval (making their wives their emotional center) and avoid conflict at the expense of their own needs, often leading to their marriage falling apart and leaving themselves without any real sense of belonging and purpose.
You can heal from Nice Guy Syndrom, get free from your addictions, and have a thriving and erotic marriage.
How do I know? I am a recovering Nice Guy.
-Ron Cecil
About Ron Cecil
Ron Cecil is a certified men's life coach with over two decades of experience. His journey began with personal challenges – between his parents' multiple marriages and his own early divorce. He recognized that to have a healthy relationship, he needed to rethink everything he knew about relationships, mainly how he showed up in them. Drawing from his theology and psychology background, Ron dedicated his life to helping men uncover the root causes of internal struggles and reignite their masculinity.
What Ron’s Clients Are Saying
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“I’m doing great! Things are about as good for me now as they’ve ever been.
I quit drinking on January 1st of this year, I got baptized at our church in April, and Sarah and I had our public wedding reception last month, and things are excellent between us. Overall, I feel like a completely different person from last year. There are things [some] I will be working on for a long time, but I’m ready for that and [am] taking one step at a time. Thanks, Ron, for helping me start this life journey!”
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It’s not a cliche–it’s rare that you will meet someone like Ron.
For the last few years, I have worked with Ron to help develop a stronger and healthier mindset in my personal and professional lives. Every interaction with Ron, I come away lighter, more centered, and with an improved outlook on life no matter what we talk about.
Some people are just wired to help inspire and lift up those around them. Ron is one of those people; you would be lucky to have him in your corner in any situation. Ron’s generosity, humility, and honesty make him a fantastic coach.”
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Ron has a true desire to help men find the best versions of themselves.
You can see it in his eyes when speaking with him. He's a great listener and an even better coach.
I've known Ron for a long time, and he has always had these qualities and traits within him.
If life is becoming a bit overwhelming or you need a little added support get Ron in your life.
You won't be disappointed.
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Ron is a gifted listener and thoughtful agitator. He helped clarify the path.
Ron can lead you to a greater attitude of abundance. He helps people see how can they can contribute meaningfully to the important relationships in life through thoughtfulness, better listening, proactive attention to the big and small.
He helped me make this shift. The great irony of living in abundance and generosity is you yourself repeatedly receive such blessing in return.
A New Beginning Awaits
If you have heard, “I don't recognize you anymore; you're not the man I fell in love with…”
It's time to get help.
You thought If you did everything right, she would be happy and love you.
Instead, she’s distant or judging and you either hang on her every word, seeking her approval or you feel like you are always walking on eggshells around her.
relationships don’t have to be hard
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A New Man Awaits
How Coaching will Change Your Relationship.
● How to Stop the Nice Guy Act: Understand WHY your impulse to fix and "caretake" your woman harms your relationship and what to do instead.
● Create More Desire In Relationships: The THREE UNIVERSAL ACTIONS that will cause your women to have more DESIRE for you.
● How to Drop the Codependency: STOP making her your emotional center and what to do to make her fall in love with you more.
● How to Step Into Your Masculinity: Why the fear of YOUR Masculinity is keeping you emasculated and how to EMBRACE it so that it serves you and the world.
Are you guilty of these common but deadly relationship mistakes?
You're all about fixing and taking care of her. When shess in need, angry, depressed, or sad, you instinctively jump in to solve or mend the situation, even she never asked for it. Offering support and being there for others is just second nature to you.
Getting validation from her is something you compulsively seek. In the midst of navigating the challenges that come with relationships, you're mindful of every action and word, carefully calculating them to gain approval and avoid disapproval, especially when it comes to feeling loved by her.
Avoiding conflict is your thing. You prioritize maintaining a harmonious relationship, going the extra mile to avoid anything that could disrupt the peace or upset anyone involved. It's all about keeping things smooth and balanced.
You believe it's necessary to hide your perceived flaws and mistakes. To the point of lying. The fear of her getting angry, shaming you, or even leaving you if your imperfections are exposed drives you to keep those aspects of yourself hidden. Vulnerability can be scary, but you're determined to maintain a façade of perfection.
You're constantly on the lookout for the "right" way to do things. Deep down, you hold the belief that there's a magical key to unlock a happy, problem-free life. You're convinced that if you can just find that correct approach in everything, nothing should ever go wrong.
You have a tendency to analyze more than you feel. Emotions may sometimes feel like they drain your time and energy, so you tend to lean toward a logical approach. Rational thinking takes the lead, as you place importance on making sense of things rather than being solely guided by emotions.
Why work with Ron
Ron’s approach is different because he tailors every coaching session to your specific needs. He doesn't believe in one-size-fits-all solutions. Instead, he provide a safe and non-judgmental space for you to share your journey, challenges, and aspirations. Together, you'll create a roadmap for your success.
Your transformation starts here. If you're ready to take the first step towards becoming the best version of yourself, I invite you to get in touch. Let's schedule a free consultation to discuss your goals and how I can support your journey to a more fulfilling life.
Don't wait any longer. Embrace change, unlock your potential, and start living the life you deserve.
